Regardless how much ladies feel they understand the males mind, these species are still pretty confusing to women.
Every guy has his quirks and preferences, but are really not that complicated, when you pay attention. Now, since guys have a completely different ways of expressing their desires than women do, how can a girl ensure she’s really playing her part and giving him all he needs?
1. Give Him Space
Men absolutely love it when you pay attention to them and text them 15 times a day, but sometimes you gotta give him a little space. There’s a thin line between loving him and being clingy. They also need some time alone, to achieve personal goals, chill with friends. The difference may be how much space they need and when they need it.
He’s not texting you or hasn’t picked your calls all day– this doesn’t mean the brother ‘ain’t love you no more‘. Guys are bad at multitasking so give us the benefit of the doubt and don’t take it too personally when we only have the ability to focus on the immediate task at hand.
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2. Have His Back
True talk? Nothing makes a man flush red like when you stand up for him, nothing sends a message to a guy like standing up for him and defending him when the situation arises. I’m not talking about life threatening situations but the less threatening ones that count
You’re at a party with friends and they make snide or mean comments about him, if you defend your guy and show him that you’re emotionally there for him, it will increase his confidence and he will feel more emotionally attached to you.
3. Call Out His BS
Keep your man firmly rooted in common sense, he may not show it, but he really does appreciate when you do this. Tell him if you think that idea is shitty, or show him the cons when he’s so excited and only seeing the pros, not in a rude or condescending manner but with Love . Keep in mind that if he has the humility to recognize that, he will adore you for it.