When a lady is out for a date with a guy, she silently begins to wonder if he’s only a fling or the one she’d walk serenely down the aisle with. She looks out for certain qualities that attracts her and decides if indeed they can continue or not.
There are signs ladies should look out for if they’re still wondering if their present boyfriend is really a fling or a permanent address. Have a look below to learn if the man you’re seeing is topping the charts in your ‘husband-to-be’ list or not.
1. He Puts You First
Does your man constantly put you first? Does he work to support you? Does he pick out all of your favourite foods merely to make sure that you have what to eat even without you asking him? Are you constantly on his mind? This really is definitely among the top signs that he’s for keeps.
2. He’s There for You When You Want Him
Is your guy there for you personally in all respects of everything? Is he there for you personally when the times are tough and when you are having emotional problems? If your man is ready to go out of his way simply to keep you company, keep him.
3. He’s Faithful, Loyal and Committed
Is he someone who is trustworthy and reliable? You understand deep down in your heart that you can always depend on him for support, understanding, and comfort. Most importantly, are you able to trust him that he won’t deliberately do things or make decisions that would hurt you or your relationship? He’s a man to keep.
4. He Listens to You
Does he listen empathetically and patiently to what exactly you say without having to be judgmental? Does he see things from your own standpoint before providing solutions or advice? Is he able to get his message across and share his thoughts effectively? Hold him tight.
5. He Respects You
Does he value your opinions and genuinely really wants to understand your ideas? Does he discuss things with you before making crucial decisions? If he respects you, your loved ones, friends and family, your alternatives, your job, as well as your space and privacy and treats you as an equal partner, he’s a keeper.
6. He’s Romantic and Sensitive
Does he expresses his love and look after you through simple, affectionate gestures like hugs, kisses, holding hands, calls, sweet little notes/cards, saying “I love you,” without shame? Is he attentive and sensitive to your needs, and happily does little things to make you happy and loved and cared for? Then, marry him.
7. He’s Appreciative and Forgiving
If he doesn’t take you or your relationship with him for granted, keep him. If he appreciates you and the stuff you do for him every day, doesn’t hold grudges when you accidently hurt his feelings or make mistakes, he forgives and progresses, he’s a husband material.
8. He Loves you Simply How You are
You are sufficient just the way you are, in reality, in his eyes, you are the best. He accepts you as a complete package – the good and the not-so-good. He helps and encourages you to understand and grow to your fullest potential, rather than molding you to become the “dream girl” or “ideal wife” in his fantasy. He doesn’t try to change you or bring you down because he feels threatened. He’s your man forever.
9. He Always invites You to Hang out Together with his Family and Friends
If your guy often invites you to family gatherings or nights out along with his friends, then it could only mean one thing, he’s proud to have you as his girl and he wants to show the world especially the people close to him that you two are together.
10. He Remembers Little Details
This can vary from basics like your anniversary or your birthday or to the mundane like how you like your tea or your shoe size. Remembering all that means he’s listening when you communicate with him and making time for your routine and mannerisms.
11. He can Argue with You
No relationship is ideal and conflicts are bound to arise, but how both of you handle them will let you know where your relationship is. Does he argue fairly? Does he listen to your side of the argument? If he can get his point across without trashing yours, then you know he’s trying to really make the relationship work.
12. He Talks about The Future with You
What about the near future? Does he constantly discuss the future? Does he constantly mention marriage as well as mention kids someday? Don’t let him go. Marry him when he asks for your hand in marriage.